Get along great with the guy, been together over a year but want more. Want a guy to express how they feel, want those three words. He doesn't want to say those words for fear something may change. Tired of waiting, is this a dumb reason to break up with someone that you love and care about or do you continue to be misserable and feel horrible about yourself like he doesnt love you?Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?I can understand if u would, but some guys like me won't say it until we our 100% percent sure and actually mean it and not just say it because u want us to. After a yr with a girl i would have said it but it takes some guys longerWould you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?I would!Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?talk to him about it! he wont know until you tell him..he doesnt read your mind..Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?love is a strong word, tell him how you feel and ask him if he could see himself with you for at least the next couple of years. If he says something stupid, leave him. He should know by now if he loves you or not.Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?You can't force a man to say something he doesn't mean. Tell him what you want, if you both don't agree why continue being miserable, as you put it? Save yourself the trouble. You obviously want different things. Don't be scared, tell him.Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?did you tell him?
did you ask him?
try bothWould you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?GREAT reason to break up with someone. If he won't say I love you, it means he doesn't love you. Yes, things WILL change if he says it -- it would communicate real commitment. THAT'S why he won't say it. Run for the hills. You've already wasted enough time on this one. He's not the one. Just chalk it up and go forward.Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?Well don't wait around forever. You can't change a person. If he's not ready, be glad he respects you enough not to lie to you. If it starts to feel wrong, leave and move on. Lack of those words doesn't necessarily mean you are not loved, cared for or appreciated. People just have different comfort levels with using them.Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?I'm with Chloe!!Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?if you love him tell him and see if he says it back. if he does, then there you go but if not, then eventually you need to find out so when you're ready just ask him if he loves you...sometimes you have to give guys that little push...i did say little ok...you dont wanna push him away for good lolWould you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?You can't stay with someone that doesn't love you. My parents got divorced because my dad never told my mom he loved her. After awhile it takes it's toll on the other person. They need to hear and feel that they are loved. If he is not willing to take it that far than he is not serious about you. Move on and find someone else who will love you and say they love you for you. If your feeling miserable than it is definitely time to move on to better things.Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?breaking up with him wouldn't be necessary... just say straight up about your true feelings.......sometimes it takes a guy time to say those words nothing to worry about nabe he had gotten hurt in the past some how and so he is not willing to get hurt again so he hasn't said those things to u yet he could be worried if your going to hurt him someway....Would you breakup with someone because they never said I love you or expressed how they feel about you?Yes it is very dumb. Look does he cuddle with you? Do you every catch him looking at you sweetly when he thinks your not looking? Is he there for you when you need him? Emotionally and physically? Just because he may be afraid to say it does not mean that he doesn't. Try to understand from his point of you. If he is afraid that things are going to change that could mean that he is scared that they may change for the worse and he will loose you. I love you are words. Have you ever heard the statement actions speak louder than words? Before you get too bent out of shape ask yourself this are you willing to break up over what you want to hear and refuse to see? Some ppl love in other ways than telling you. They show you. Look at all aspects of your relationship all the good and all the bad does the good out weigh the bad? But remember ppl are diff. He may be telling you everyday that he loves you and you might not be seeing it. Either way talk to him about how you feel. Good luck
